My Thoughts and Prayers are wtih you / JoBeth Fitzpatrick (Mother to Angel Sara ) What a beautiful tribute to Jamie. How special she was to everyone she knew. I also have a Angel in Heaven and her name is Sara who was 16 and killed in a car accident on Memorial day 2005. Her smile could also light up a room.
I had to smile when I read about Jamie getting her eye glued shut. What a cute story and a wonderful memory.
I will be thinking of you on December 23.
Always JoBeth Sara's mom
Merry Christmas / Lisa Church (Holly's Mom )
Merry Christmas / Angel Mom To Jessica Ferrara
And God Said....... / Diane Angel Mom- Katie Cassidy (I care ) I said, God I hurt And God said, I know
I said, I cry alot And God said, That's why I gave you tears
I said, Life is so hard And God said, That's why I gave you loved ones
I said, But my loved one died!! And God said, So did mine!!
I said, It's such a great loss!! And God said, I saw mine nailed to a cross!!
I said, But your loved one lives!! And God said, So does yours!!
I said, Where is she now?? And God said, My Son is by my side and Your Daughter is in my arms!!
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a very pretty girl / Sara Hailes (none) i never knew your daughter,i have been setting up a site for my son and i just thought i would have a look at what you have done for your daughter,anyway i would like to say she looked lovely and sounded like a nice young lady.and that i understand what its like to loose a child so tragicly i lost my son in july he was 18yrs so i know and i would like to say my sincere thoughts go out to you and your family....
In my prayers / Sharon Mom To Pamela Bland (visitor) I look at all of Jamie's photos and it reminds me of my brother who was a girls basketball coach for the local high school. He was so devoted to the girls like they were his very own. He passed away this year with heart problems and pulmonary embolism. But, I feel as though he is in heaven with Jamie coaching her all the way. He was such a gentle man with the biggest heart and I know he has taken her under his wing. My daughter passed away in her sleep on Oct. 8 2005 from complicatins due to a car accident on Dec. 2003. If I know Pam , she is cheering Jamie on. I'm praying for you and the family that God will continue to comfort you and give you peace until you are once again reunited with your Jamie.
Love to you this holiday season!!!!
In memory of Jamie / Mary Mitchell (passerby) To the family of Jamie: I did not know Jamie, but like all of us who find the websites such as these, it breaks our hearts. She was so young and beautiful. I too know the pain of a loss through death, having lost my husband to Lymphoma in 2001. I was pregnant at the time,and our baby was 7 weeks old when his father passed away. There is nothing like the pain of death, but I have found from experience that the more the loved one is acknowledged and spoken of the better it will make you feel. It makes you feel that even though she is gone,everyone still cherishes her in their memories.
I know a year is coming up for all of you, and it is especially hard during the holidays as your hearts are still so heavy. I know that this sounds impossible at the moment, but with time,your pain will ease somewhat. If you are like me, I know a certain area of my heart will always grieve as you will never stop loving this person. But you will begin to smile through your tears and find comfort in your memories of her.
I will be sending a lot of prayers and thoughts your way as you try to make it through this holiday season. God bless all of you.
The Big Mystery.. / Anonymous (none) By happenstance or quiet a synchronistic occurrence I found myself viewing this memorial. I never knew this young lady or anyone related to her. Never the less I am here to write this. There is a great mystery in life about why those so full of life and potential are taken from this world while others who are sick or may be judged evil linger.
We can ask ourselves this question every time we see the passing of one such as Jamie. It is surely tragic to lose a loved one for any person. This age though is the hardest. It is hard because a person at this age was about to experience life in many facets that now has been denied them. Our 3 dimensional minds just can not rationalize it so we go on asking the big questions. There is no remedy for the sorrow one feels especially a parent. The only thing I can say is that we are put here in life, I think, to experience every facet of consciousness. This deep heart breaking sorrow is one of those facets. This sorrow is also tie to your loved one that binds you to them and they to you. It is special. And it is because of this that you must in the end realize that the separation that one feels by death is but an illusion. We are left behind to continue experiencing so we must endeavor to persevere. Sorry for your lose…
To a Special, Lving and Caring Family / Donna Robert Mom To Angie-Robert (Someone who cares ) My deepest condolences to a family and too many friends that gave Jamie such a special life. She is a beautiful girl and she surely is a beautiful Angel.
I see that Jamie's first Angel Date in Heaven is coming up on December 23. This must be a terrible time in all of your lives. Last year you probably went through shock and not realized everything that has happened in the last year. I found the hardest time was after my daughters first year. Reality kicks in and YUCK! It hurts and there is a lot of anger. The WHY'S are the hardest.
My daughter died in a tragic car accident and she died on impact, (I thank the Lord because her injuries would have made her a complete vegtable. Mind you I say that now, but I didn't think or feel that way when she passed away.) She was 24 yrs old and she left behind a son who turned three, three weeks after her passing. He was her life. Angie has a site you can visit if you want. angie-robert.memory-of.com
Angie has just had her second Angel Date in October and somedays are better than others but I know we will all go on, because we have to. I have custody of her son and we have to give him the beautiful life she wanted for him.
The site you put together for Jamie is beautiful. I really love her legacy page. Her pictures show she was always surrounded by many people who admired and loved her. She was a lucky girl blessed into a loving and caring family.
Angie's Dad had a heart attack too and nearly died. Everytime he would feel under the weather Angie would say, Mom he can't get sick, I want Dad to walk me down the isle one day. Imagine he hasn't died but he will never be able to walk her down the isle. I am so sorry that Jamie and her family lost their Dad. The only good thing is he doesn't have to grief the loss of Jamie, he is probably with her in a peaceful Heavenly place.
The one thing we have is the promise God made and that is we will all be reunited with our love ones again one day.
I know you're not in the mood for Christmas and all the traditions you have cherished over the years, but if Jamie is looking down, she would probably want you all to be having a blast a Christmas and a few laughs involving her memories.
God Bless you and may he continue to grant you the strength you need to endure the treasured memories Jamie left you all.
I read how Jamie's smile lit up a room / Lesley Mom Of Mark Schroeder 17 (mom who also grieves )
Renee you have created a beautiful tribute to Jamie. I read how her smile lit up a room. My son Mark was the same - full of charisma and light - everyone adored him. I have been reflecting on young life cut short for 17 months now and it seems that our special children came here to teach us all. I still dont understand it but I do know that their spirits never ever leave us and love never dies.
I am so sorry for your pain and send you light and love from South Africa.
Please look at Mark's legacy section we we have documented our experiences of how he continues to reach out to us. I hope it encourages your hurting heart. www.mark-schroeder.memory-of.com
only for a little while / Kathy Moore Bryce (angel tamara moores mom )
TO ALL PARENTS "I'll lend you, for a little while, a child of mine,"He said "For you to love while he lives and mourn when he is dead. It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three, but will you till I call him back, take care of him for me? He'll bring his charms to gladden you and shall his stay be brief, you'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay, as all from earth return but there are lessons taught down there that I want this child to learn. I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true, and from the throngs that crown life's lanes, I have selected YOU. Now will you give him all your love -not think the labor vain nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again." I fancied that I heard them say "Dear Lord, Thy will be done. For all the joys thy child will bring The risk of grief we'll run. We will shelter him with tenderness, We'll love him while we may--- And for the happiness we've known Forever grateful stay. But should the angels call for him Much sooner than we've planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes And try to understand." Written By: Edgar A. Guest (from "All In a Lifetime"--Copyright, 1938)
So sorry / Tammy Reece (none) I know I do not know you, but I still give my full condolences, and tell you I am sorry for your loss, my sister was killed in a car accident at the age of 14, it has been 14 years and it still feels like yesterday
what a tragedy.. / Brittney Kendle (passerby) I couldn't imagine having to see all of this going on at and feeling the pain of knowing it might be your daughter/sister in the accident. my brother, tyler kendle, died in a car also, but it wasn't an accident. my loving brother had a horrible depression problem, even though stunningly very cool with the ladies. everybody loved him, thats why i dont understand. I'm so sorry to hear about the pain you are suffering through, and even though the year point is coming up, it hurts just as much as that day. the one year date was in october for me and for some reason, it felt as though my life was going to stop when it hit that day... anxiety really kicks in when the day draws near... I hope your family is doing as best as possible because that is what she would want. so much life many of us miss out with our loved ones. I'm very sorry...
Plz Read / Billy Crawford (None) Hello, My Name Is Billy, I Lost My Daughter In A Car Accident This Past March, Im So Sorry For Your Loss, I Know What Ur Going Threw, Its So Hard To Deal With At Times, Ur In My Prayers, My Daughter Was Jessica Nicole Crawford, She Has A Site On Here Too, It Does Help Me To Go There And Talk And Just Enjoy Her Pics, God Bless You, Billy
We are Sisters in Sadness / Marguerite Ward Mom To Angel Brandi (Mom to an Angel too ) I just read your Jamie's story and was so touched by it. It is eery to me how similar our lives have been. My oldest daughter is named Jamie. My baby, Brandi became an angel on 2/17/06. She was so much like your Jamie. They both loved sports and were active in 4-H. My beloved husband died of a massive heart attack on 3/29/01. It was very hard on my girls. They were both going to Texas A & M at the time. Perhaps the loss of their fathers somehow prepared our girls for what to come in their future. I, too, had a hard time leaving my baby at the hospital after she had passed away but was comforted in knowing that she was going into not only into God's loving hands but also the loving hands of her beloved daddy. I too have the angel you mentioned. It was given to me after my Brandi died. I cherish it and the message that it brings.
I hope you find some comfort in the memories. This holiday season will be the hardest I will ever have to endure. I thought losing my husband was tough but losing a child is the ultimate loss. I will never be the same because she was so much a part of my life and was a part of me.
Take care my friend and if you ever need someone to talk to who truly understands.....I am only a email away.
May God Bless you and your family.
Marguerite
I feel your pain / Kelly Friend Of ^i^ Alyssa Narloch
I know how you are feeling at a time like this it is never easy to lose someone so young. I lost a dear friend of mine due to an auto accident also. My Alyssa left behind a host of friends and family along with a daughter who looks like her mom more and more every day. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. Find peace in knowing she is in the loving arms of god and with her father again. God bless you. Please feel free to visit Alyssa on her website.
I lost friends in an accident / Sara D. (passerby) I am so sorry about Jamie. I live in AZ and lost 2 close friends 12-9-04 in a lunch time car accident. Looking at Jamies website just touched my heart so much. She looked like an amazing girl and I'm sure she touched so many peoples lives.
Jamie will not be forgotton / Holly Lyons (passerby) To Jamie's Mom, Your daughter will never be forgotton by the people close to you that knew her. I have a very close friend who lost a 16 yr. old daughter 4 yr. ago in a car accident where the boyfriend was driving drunk and she has struggled on a daily basis. I try to mention Shadlee to her every time we are together so that she knows that I will never forget her. But for some of us on the outside looking in we also are not wanting to upset you. So when people do tend to shy away from talking about Jamie it's not because they have forgotton her. God will protect her and you and guide you in your sorrow. Sincerely, Holly Lyons
pain shared / Donna Riding i feel your pain and share your pain.My beautiful son was killed in a hit and run on 30th april this year.its hurts so much the pain is undescribable.he was only 17.our family was ripped apart that day as im sure yours was.nobody can even imagine the pain a mother goes through when they lose a child i could not even start to describe it.Your daughter looked like another beautiful angel who was called home to make heaven a brighter place.my heart goes out to you
mother to mother / Kay Peter (Mom of Ryan ) I know your pain,I lost my son Ryan on June.13,06,Hold on to the memories and each other.Wish you peace through the holidays,know it will be hard.God Bless!
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